For many individuals living with herpes, dating can feel like an insurmountable challenge. However, Positive Singles, a dating platform specifically designed for people with herpes and other STDs, is changing this narrative. Today, we share five touching stories of people who found true love on Positive Singles, proving that happiness and romance are within reach, even with herpes.
Emily and Alex: A Match Made in Musical Heaven
Emily (29) had always been passionate about music, but after her herpes diagnosis, she felt her dreams of finding a partner who shared her love for melodies had been shattered. Reluctantly, she joined Positive Singles, more out of curiosity than hope.
That’s when she came across Alex’s (33) profile. His bio mentioned that he was a part-time musician, which immediately caught Emily’s attention. They started chatting about their favorite bands and soon discovered they had an uncanny taste in obscure indie rock.
Emily was blown away by his talent, and Alex was touched that she came to support him. As weeks turned into months, they found themselves collaborating on songs, with Emily writing lyrics and Alex composing the music.
Two years later, they’re not just partners in life but also in music. They’ve released an EP together and are planning a small tour. Emily often says that herpes led her to the love of her life and reignited her passion for music in ways she never imagined.
Jason and Maria: Love Across Borders
Jason (31) from Toronto and Maria (28) from Miami never thought they’d find love on a herpes dating site, let alone with someone from another country. Jason had joined Positive Singles after a difficult breakup and subsequent herpes diagnosis left him feeling hopeless about future relationships.
Maria, on the other hand, had been living with herpes for several years but struggled to find someone who could see past her condition. She expanded her search parameters on Positive Singles out of frustration, not expecting to match with someone so far away.
Their first interaction was a simple “hello,” but it quickly evolved into hours-long video calls and thousands of text messages. They bonded over their shared love for travel, spicy food, and quirky indie films. Despite the distance, they felt a connection that neither had experienced before.
After six months of virtual dating, Jason surprised Maria by flying to Miami for her birthday. The chemistry they had online translated perfectly in person, and they spent a magical week together exploring the city and getting to know each other better.
For the next year, they alternated visits between Toronto and Miami, with each trip solidifying their bond. Eventually, they decided that the distance was too much to bear. In a bold move, Maria applied for a job in Toronto and made the move north.
Today, three years after their first online interaction, Jason and Maria are engaged and planning their wedding. They credit Positive Singles for bringing them together and giving them the platform to be open about their herpes status from the start, allowing them to build a relationship on honesty and understanding.
Lisa and Thomas: Second Chances at Love
Lisa (40), a single mother of two, thought her romantic life was over after her divorce and subsequent herpes diagnosis. She joined Positive Singles primarily seeking support and understanding, with little expectation of finding love again.
Thomas (45), a widower with a teenage daughter, had a similar mindset when he created his profile. Both were pleasantly surprised when they matched and began chatting.
Their first conversations revolved around the challenges of single parenthood and living with herpes. They found solace in each other’s experiences and quickly became each other’s confidants. As weeks passed, their chats evolved from support to genuine interest in each other’s lives.
After a month of online interaction, they decided to meet for coffee. That first date lasted five hours, with both losing track of time as they shared stories, laughed, and realized how much they had in common beyond their shared experiences with herpes and single parenthood.
Over the next few months, Lisa and Thomas introduced their children to each other, and to their delight, the kids got along wonderfully. Two years later, they moved in together, creating a loving blended family.
Lisa often remarks that Positive Singles gave her more than just a partner; it gave her family a second chance at wholeness. Their story is a testament to the fact that love can find you at any stage of life, and that shared challenges can form the foundation of a strong, understanding relationship.
David and Olivia: From Friendship to Love
David (30) and Olivia (29) met in a Positive Singles forum discussion about managing herpes outbreaks. Neither was actively seeking a romantic relationship at the time; both were more focused on learning to live confidently with their condition.
Over several months, they found themselves regularly commenting on each other’s posts, sharing advice, and offering support. Their interactions eventually moved to private messages, where they discovered shared interests in environmental activism and vegan cooking.
As their friendship deepened, they realized they lived only a few hours apart. They decided to meet at a vegan festival halfway between their cities. What was meant to be a casual meetup between friends turned into a day filled with laughter, deep conversations, and an undeniable spark.
After that day, their relationship slowly began to shift. They started having regular video calls, planning weekend trips together, and supporting each other through life’s ups and downs. Six months after their first in-person meeting, David and Olivia officially began dating.
Now, two years into their relationship, they’ve moved in together and started a small vegan catering business. They credit Positive Singles for providing a platform where they could be completely open about their herpes status from the start, allowing them to build a relationship rooted in honesty and mutual support.
Rachel and Steve: A Journey of Rebuilding Confidence
Rachel (36) joined Positive Singles at her therapist’s suggestion, six months after her herpes diagnosis. She was struggling with self-esteem issues and hadn’t dated since finding out about her condition. Steve (38) had been living with herpes for several years and joined the site to meet others who could relate to his experiences.
Steve was the first person Rachel connected with on the platform. Sensing her nervousness, he took the time to share his own journey of self-acceptance and how he learned to date confidently with herpes. Rachel found his openness both comforting and inspiring.
Their initial chats were focused on friendship and support, with Steve gently encouraging Rachel to participate more in the site’s forums and social events. As Rachel’s confidence grew, she found herself looking forward to their conversations more and more.
After three months of daily chats, they decided to meet for dinner. Rachel was anxious, but Steve’s calm and accepting presence put her at ease. That dinner turned into a four-hour conversation where they discovered a deep connection beyond their shared experiences with herpes.
As their relationship developed, Steve continued to be Rachel’s rock, supporting her through moments of self-doubt and celebrating her achievements. Rachel, in turn, helped Steve open up emotionally in ways he never had before.
A year into their relationship, they moved in together. Rachel says that Positive Singles not only introduced her to Steve but also to a community that helped her rediscover her self-worth. Steve believes that meeting Rachel showed him the power of vulnerability in building a truly intimate relationship.
These stories demonstrate that Positive Singles is more than just a dating site; it’s a platform for building connections, finding support, and yes, discovering love. Whether you’re newly diagnosed or have been living with herpes for years, Positive Singles offers a judgment-free space to meet others who understand your journey.
Ready to write your own success story? Join Positive Singles today and take the first step towards finding understanding, support, and perhaps even your perfect match. Remember, herpes doesn’t define you, and it certainly doesn’t determine your happiness or your ability